How I Taught My Daughter to Read

I talked about my goals in my previous post, and one of the goals is to teach my daughter to read before the year 2021.

She’s turning 6 next year, and I know I shouldn’t pressure her to read, and I didn’t, but she’s just ready. We have been reading to her daily since she was 1 month old, and continued to do so. At the age of 5, she already has large vocabularies and reading readiness skills.

So after her 5th birthday, and after setting my determination to teach her to read, I started by making a lot of dua’a/prayers that Allah will make it easy for her to learn and easy for me to teach her. I even said the prayer aloud before she go to sleep each night so that our goals are aligned (okay, I’m one psycho mom). But I truly believe that only Allah could ease the process, or any process for that matter, and our kids need to know that we would put our reliance on Allah in everything.

I first introduced her to sight words using flash cards. I know you might think that I should have teach her using phonics, but I really lack the knowledge to teach her using that method. She learnt phonics in school, she already knew the sound of each letter, but she didn’t really understand on how to blend the letters yet. Hence I taught her using the method I know, which is by teaching her the whole words or ‘look and say’ method (that was they way we were taught). To my surprise the progress was quite fast, she could quickly recognized words like and, go, to, so, no, on, of, off, at, the, is, it, in, and if.

I started to buy Peter and Jane series for her to read then. She took quite some time to master book 1a, 1b, 2a, and 2b, but by the time she was on book 3a, she was also getting better at blending words using phonic methods (thank you, teachers), so book 3a, 3b, 4a and 4b were a breeze for her, alhamdulillah. Now she’s on book 5a, and the progress is slowed down since there are many complex words introduced, for example, station, school, horses, houses, police, etc. I let her to take time.

Aside from Peter and Jane, she’s also now reading phonics through Read Easy beginner series, since she already have the basic and can self-learn, so all I need to do is just cross-check her reading.

Now, we also incorporated spelling test to her routine, and due to her competitive nature, she loves it and wouldn’t accept if she spell things wrongly, lol. We have also move to reading encyclopedias to her instead of the children books, since she wanted to learn in details about animals, trees, and other countries (yes, she’s obsessed with the atlas).

Alhamdulillah, she’s still in the process to inprove her reading but I’m just happy with her progress so far. Still a long way to go for both of us.

So if you ask me, there’s no right or wrong method in teaching kids to read, but the most important thing is for them to develop the love of reading and understand why reading is so important in life. For now, we are just happy with her interest in learning, alhamdulillah. I keep making dua’a that she’ll always be eager to learn and seek knowledge.

x

Week 28

Alhamdulillah, I’m now in week 28 of my second pregnancy, where it is the start of the third trimester.

Pregnancy has been smooth so far alhamdulillah – my energy and appetite have now pick up. I can brisk walk for one and a half hour on Saturdays and Sundays, half an hour on weekdays, although I will still be out of breath every time I climb up the stairs, lol. I’m starting to incorporate more fruits in my diet now for my vitamin and mineral needs (still hate veggies) and overall just trying to eat healthily, yet still enjoy this pregnancy.

Although, to be honest, I’m taking this pregnancy one week at a time. It’s hard to be separated from my husband due to this COVID-19 pandemic, since he’s working in Bintulu and I’m currently working in my hometown in Taiping as I can’t be back to Sarawak without having to be quarantined and to go through swab test (I don’t mind, but I just don’t want my daughter to go through it). We’ve also agreed that it’s best for me to stay in Taiping for now and not expose to this virus if I were to commute back and forth. I want him near, because he will usually pamper me when I’m pregnant. He will be the one massaging me at night, buying me my favorite food when I don’t have any appetite, taking me out for breakfast dates… Hm. I’m counting days for us to be reunited again, but meanwhile, I’m just keeping myself busy.

I have a lot of goals during this pregnancy (as always). One of my goals throughout this pregnancy is to read the whole Quran, insyaAllah. But I’m only on the 14th juz’ for now. 16 more juz’ to go in 12 weeks time. Not quite sure if I can finish it in time, but I’ll try my best.

Other than that, I’ve been practicing my piano, reading, listening to podcast, catching up on my favorite shows, and obviously shopping!

Guess what, I’ve completed the shopping from my baby shopping list, alhamdulillah! There’s not much stuffs to buy for this second baby since we try to recycle as much as possible from the first one and I already have many big ticket items from back then, but now that we could afford a bit more, I bought a lot of nice-to-have stuffs heeeeeee just really excited to be parents for the second time.

So here’s my shopping list:

NoItem
130 days confinement lady service
2Jujube diaper bags
3Baby clothes
4Baby Playpen – Graco Pack ‘N Play Quick Connect Portable Seat Deluxe Playard With Bassinet
5Playpen Bedding Set and Baby Nest from Tinypalms
6Diapering (Diapers, Wet Wipes)
7Ubbi Steel Diaper Pail
8Coby Mini UV Sterilizer
9Infant Carseat – Koopers Danza
10Maternity belt and postnatal belly band
11Sophie La Giraffe
12Sudocrem Diaper Cream
13Medela Purelan Lanolin Cream
14Hairbrush
15Pigeon Bottle and Food Warmer
16Pigeon Breastmilk Storage Bags
17Pigeon Baby Laundry Detergent
18Pigeon Sterilization Tong
19Pigeon Peristaltic Plus nipple 1M+ (S)
20Pigeon Peristaltic Plus nipple newborn (SS)
21Pigeon Nose Cleaner Aspirator
22Pigeon Pacifier
23Pigeon Breast Pads
24Pigeon Breastmilk Collector
25Mamaway Maternity and Nursing Pyjamas

All of these items are already secured here in my mom’s house, so all I need to do now is enjoy this pregnancy, let this baby go to full term and try to relax (because God knows I can’t relax).

x

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