“And those who say, “Our Lord, grant us from among our wives and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us a leader [i.e., example] for the righteous.”” – Surah Al-Furqan 25:74
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Coolness of the eyes means our tears become cool and be shed as tears of joy and comfort.
When we ask Allah SWT in this dua’a to make our spouses and our children the coolness of our eyes, we are directly asking that they make our eyes moist with that coolness which will continually bring happiness and comfort to us from them.
Think about Asiah, Firaun’s wife. She had no place to run from Firaun and continually turned to Allah SWT saying, “My Lord, build for me near You a house in Paradise and save me from Pharaoh and his deeds and save me from the wrongdoing people.” Surah At-Tahrim (66:11)
But Allah lSWT is the most merciful, the most wise, and He sends baby Musa AS in the river. As Asiah picked baby Musa (AS) up, she said: “And the wife of Pharaoh said, “[He will be] a comfort of the eye for me and for you. Do not kill him; perhaps he may benefit us, or we may adopt him as a son.” And they perceived not.” Surah al-Qasas (28:9)
On the other hand, can you imagine the emotion when Musa AS’s mother was reunited with her child again when she’s appointed as his wet nurse? Can you imagine the tears of happiness? Allah SWT is describing the most amazing joy and the most indescribable feeling in the heart of a mother! And what expression does He use? ‘The coolness of the eyes’, to depict that powerfully.
By making this dua’a we are asking Allah to make our families a safe haven from the chaos of the outside world, that they fill our eyes with tears of joy and we feel like we have finally come to a place where we can rest and relax when we are with them.
May Allah forgive all of our shortcomings and accept all of our dua’a.
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